Using My Voice and Lived Experiences to Promote Change

by Patricia Quaglia

Register Her Fellow, Michigan

Who knew that when I registered to table at Take My Hand Resource Fair, like I had done one month before, it would be in conjunction with the City Of Detroit, who also promoted the resource fair?  Just one month prior, the City of Detroit had not promoted the resource fair that was hosted by the same organization that hosted this one.  There were so many people looking to get backpacks, free food, activities and valuable resources for themselves and their families. The hallway in which my table was set up was so crowded – this was amazing to see, yet, also a little overwhelming.  Despite the crowdedness, it felt so good to be with the community! There was a majority of women there with their children

of all ages and economic statuses.

The women that came over to the Wisdom Institute table were asked the question, “Are you registered to vote?” Most said yes, but many were indignant with their response of yes, almost as if I asked them an offensive question or a question that I should have known the answer to. I was happy to have such great responses.

Then I came to this lady, maybe in her 30’s, who reminded me of myself. She told me, “ My one vote won’t count.” At one point, I myself detached from many of the elections because I didn’t really see the effects on the community, especially on the impoverished parts of the community. Since then, I have realized the importance of voting in every election and for every office, if possible. Being around the awesome women of Wisdom Institute, who have taught me the importance of voting full force, has been extremely valuable. I’m also using my power, along with other women, to advocate for issues that are important to melanated women and the community.

I tried to explain to this lady that her vote does count but when I went to get the application for her, she ran – literally ran – away from the table. In hindsight, I could have done a better job. I could have told her about my experience and how I used to feel similar. I could have explained to her that it's better to pick candidates that are more supportive, vote for them and hold them accountable. I wish I had shared how recent politicians have really proved this to be true.

My latest work with Register Her has been great. It has allowed me to be with community and that in the future, I can use my own lived experiences when discussing the importance of voting.